As a vegan, it irks me so much when I go into restaurants and order something off of the menu thinking that it will be vegan, and then there’s cheese or whipped cream on it. When I read a menu that says spaghetti and marinara, I shold be able expect just that…speghetti and marinara, not spaghetti, marinara, plus cheese. Also, if I ask for black beans, I should be able to get just black beans, not black beans plus cheese that I didn’t ask for. I also learned to request no whipped cream when ordering my beloved virgin strawberry daquiris, or they may automatically put whipped cream on.
What’s so hard about asking us if we want cheese or whipped cream before putting it on. When I was at a lounge about a week ago, the waitress asked me if I wanted whipped cream on my daquiri rather than just automatically putting it on, and I appreciated receiving my daquiri with no whipped cream. It was still delicious.
If I had my way, only vegan cheese and whipped cream would exist, but as long as dairy is around, please specify on the menu if an item comes with this so those of us who are vegan, lactose intolerant, or just don’t want dairy can request the item without the dairy products, or order something else.
Sure, we could just send the order back, but then the food may just get wasted. Many people become vegans out of concern for animal rights and enivironmental issues, and wasting animal products does nothing to benefit these issues.
Part of the problem could be lack of familiarity with what veganism is, as many people seem to think it’s just vegetarianism. I attended the screening of an indy animal rights film called “Bold Native” that took place in a mainstream restaurant (not entirely vegan or vegetarian). I noticed the pinto soup on the menu and asked the waitress if it was vegan. She assured me that it was and then asked if I wanted cheese on it. Thus, people may misassociate vegan with just no meat like dairy and egg eating vegetarians…instead of no animal products (including meat, dairy, eggs, etc.). Here’s an entry I previously wrote defining the terms: http://veganvixen1.wordpress.com/2011/08/30/vegetarian-and-vegan-terminology/ .
Fortunately, there are vegan friendly restaurants where we can order everything (or almost everything) in a vegan form, and some restaurants that are entirely vegan.